So I vaguely remember promising about 6 weeks ago that I was going to update everyone on the happenings over the last 6 months in my spare time whilst moving and packing. You can see how well that went....
Moving did not go, dare I say, as we planned. Thanks to the wonderful economy and living in the city with the highest number of foreclosures in the Nashville metropolitan area, the last few years were not the kindest to the value of our house. After realizing the major bath we were taking on the house, Raif and I decided to save a little money and move ourselves.
I have likened moving to childbirth - I think you block out the misery of it, once the actual event has passed and so the next time you think about doing it, it doesn't seem as bad as it really was. I really honestly don't remember moving to Nashville being a giant nightmare and that was when we had a 1 1/2 year old and a 6 week old. So surely if that wasn't bad then moving now, with my days sans children, would be a piece of cake.
However, what I failed to take into account was that when we lived in Atlanta we actually had friends that helped us move - physically packing boxes and tending to children when needed. Not a single neighbor in Nashville lent a hand (one of the many reasons why we are glad to have left that house). And in 5 1/2 years we accumulated A LOT more crap. This idea was doomed to begin with. Couple that with Raif having to be out of town the two weeks prior to us moving and then him falling out of the truck while moving a mattress and more than likely cracking a rib or two and well....you can understand why I didn't have time to update the blog.
I will be eternally grateful to our realtor Jessi, who two days before we were suppose to close on the house, came by to put the SOLD sign in the yard, saw the state of packing/moving and saw the emotional basket case that was me in the midst of it all; completely paralyzed with fear as to how to handle it all. Perhaps it was her fear of not closing on the house she worked so hard to sell or perhaps it was taking pity on me, but she walked right back out of the house and called Two Men and a Truck who was there in an hour and packed up my house for me. Without that I probably would still be in the fetal position in the middle of my living room surrounded with half packed boxes.
But all's well that ends well and here I am in my tiny shoebox apartment surrounded by boxes and cheap formic counter tops! We are enjoying our 10 minute drive to work and school (previously it was 35-40) and Raif is enjoying weekends that haven't involved a single lawn or garden tool. We put the build order in on our new house today and hopefully (knock on wood, crossing all fingers and toes) we should be moving once again, this time starting out with real movers in about 4 months.
So now I am honestly really ready to update the world on what has been happening. I know the Grandmas have been more than patient in waiting for pictures of baseball and softball and all things grandkids. And whomever else hasn't given up on me and occasionally been checking in to see whether I am alive and dead, I am alive and kicking, so let's get this update started. I will try to keep the new things current and do some awesome flashbacks as time permits. And without further ado.....